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Book 10th 11th and 12th Day Rituals in Varanasi

Losing a loved one is a deeply emotional experience, and along with grief comes the responsibility of performing the final rites correctly so that the departed soul attains peace. In Hindu tradition, the rituals performed after cremation hold immense spiritual importance, especially those conducted on the 10th, 11th and 12th day. These rituals are not just customs but are considered essential steps in helping the soul transition from the preta state to becoming part of the ancestral lineage. Among all places in India, Varanasi is considered the most sacred location to perform these rites because of its deep association with the Ganga and Lord Shiva. Families from across India and abroad choose to perform these rituals in Varanasi to ensure that everything is done correctly and with proper guidance. Whether you are able to travel or not, today it is possible to arrange these rituals in Varanasi either by visiting personally or by booking them online.

Asthi Visarjan in Varanasi – First and Most Important Ritual

Before starting the 10th, 11th and 12th day rituals, the ashes immersion, known as asthi visarjan, should be completed. This is usually performed within a few days after death and is considered the first important step in the entire process. Asthi visarjan in Varanasi is highly auspicious as it is believed that immersion of ashes in the Ganga helps the departed soul attain peace.

We provide complete arrangements for asthi visarjan at the Ganga ghats in Varanasi. The ritual includes asthi pujan, proper guidance by pandit ji and immersion of ashes in the middle of the river.

Asthi Visarjan Packages

Asthi Visarjan Only – Rs2000
Asthi Visarjan with Pind Daan – Rs3500
Asthi Visarjan with Pind Daan and Gau Daan – Rs5000

All rituals are performed properly under the guidance of experienced pandit ji, and assistance is provided throughout the process.

10th Day Ritual in Varanasi – Dashgatra and Pind Daan

The 10th day ritual, commonly known as Dashgatra or Daswan, marks the first major purification stage after death. This day is associated with shuddhikaran, or purification of the family, and the gradual formation of the subtle body of the departed soul. It is believed that during the first ten days, the soul undergoes transformation, and through pind daan, the family helps in forming this new subtle existence.

On the 10th day, the karta, usually the eldest son or main performer, undertakes purification rituals such as head shaving, nail cutting and ritual bathing. The most important part of the day is pind daan, where ten pind or rice balls are offered to the departed soul. These ten pind represent the formation of the subtle body. The ritual is performed under the guidance of an experienced pandit, usually at the Ganga ghats in Varanasi. The process also includes tarpan and food offerings for the ancestors, completing the first stage of post-death rituals.

11th Day Ritual – Ekadasha Performed by Mahabrahmin

The 11th day, known as Ekadasha or Gyarahvi, is one of the most spiritually significant stages. This day focuses on helping the soul move beyond the preta state and continue its journey towards becoming a pitru.

The rituals on this day are performed by a Mahabrahmin or Mahapatra, who is specially trained in conducting post-death ceremonies. These priests follow traditional procedures and ensure that all rituals are performed correctly.

On the 11th day, eleven pind are offered during pind daan, symbolizing further progression of the soul. Along with pind daan, specific shradh rituals are conducted, and daan is given to Brahmins in the form of food, clothes and dakshina. This day plays a crucial role in ensuring that the soul progresses smoothly without obstacles.

12th Day Ritual and Terahvi – Dwadasha Pind Daan, Gau Daan, Shaiya Daan and Brahmin Bhojan

The 12th day ritual, known as Dwadasha or Barahvi, is one of the most important stages in the entire sequence of post-death ceremonies. This day marks the completion of the soul’s transition and prepares it for merging with the ancestral lineage.

On this day, twelve pind are offered during pind daan, symbolizing the completion of the soul’s journey from the preta state. In many traditions, sapindikaran is also performed during this stage, where the departed soul is symbolically merged with the ancestors.

In addition to pind daan, important acts of charity are performed. Gau daan, which is the donation of a cow, is considered highly auspicious and is believed to help the soul in its journey. Shaiya daan, or donation of a bed, represents providing comfort to the departed soul.

After completing Dwadasha pind daan and all daan rituals, Brahmin bhojan is performed. This feeding of Brahmins is also commonly referred to as Terahvi, and it marks the completion of the entire ritual process. After this, the mourning period comes to an end, and the family gradually returns to normal life.

Why Perform These Rituals in Varanasi

Varanasi has been a center for moksha rituals for centuries. Performing 10th, 11th and 12th day rituals here, especially on the banks of the Ganga, is believed to bring peace and liberation to the departed soul. The presence of experienced pandits and the sacred environment make it one of the most preferred locations for these ceremonies.

Cost of 10th 11th and 12th Day Rituals in Varanasi

We provide complete arrangements for all three days of rituals in Varanasi, including 10th day pind daan, 11th day pind daan and 12th day pind daan along with Gau Daan, Shaiya Daan and Brahmin Bhojan.

The total cost for all three days rituals is Rs11000, which includes one Brahmin for bhojan.

In case you want to include more Brahmins for bhojan, the additional charge is Rs700 per Brahmin. For example, if you choose to feed 11 Brahmins, the total cost will be Rs11000 plus Rs7700, making the total Rs18700.

How to Book 10th 11th and 12th Day Rituals in Varanasi

You can book the service in advance by paying 20% advance through our website and rest after puja. We will arrange experienced pandits, including Mahabrahmins, all required puja materials and complete assistance at the ghat. You will be guided step by step throughout the entire process.

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Online 10th 11th and 12th Day Rituals in Varanasi

If you are not willing or able to travel to Varanasi, you can opt for online booking.

In this option, our pandit ji performs the complete rituals on your behalf. Sankalp is taken with your name and gotra, and all rituals including pind daan, daan and Brahmin bhojan are completed properly. The entire process is recorded, and photos and videos are shared with you. This option is especially useful for families living outside Varanasi or abroad.

Important Things to Keep in Mind

These rituals should be performed on the correct tithi and under proper guidance. It is always recommended to plan in advance, as availability of experienced pandits becomes limited, especially during peak periods.

FAQs

What should I bring for the rituals

You only need to provide the names and gotra of the last three generations of your family. All other arrangements and materials are provided by us.

How many days are required to complete these rituals

Generally, the rituals take three days to complete. However, they can also be completed in two days, where Dashgatra and Ekadasha are performed on the first day and Dwadasha along with other rituals is completed on the second day.

Can women perform these rituals

Yes, women can perform these rituals and can act as the karta if required.